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02 July 2009 | 9:16:00 PM
curious: i fall for a guy who is 6 years older than me, what should i do?Dear curious, Firstly, sorry for the late reply. The Aunties have been quite busy. You should try to ask yourself if you really did fall for this guy who is 6 years older than you or is it just a crush. If you had confirm that you fallen for him. You can approach him to talk and its okay to fall for a guy who is 6 years older than you as age does not matter as long as there is love. From, The Aunties. Labels: TAG REPLY
13 June 2009 | 1:59:00 PM
troubled gal: THanks a lot for the reply in such a short time,but it isnt so simple 2 go along with them it seems that i understand them but they just don't care and took me as if im extra and there's nothing for me to talk because they r just like talking among themselves about topics of their own.they just don't want to share,i feel as if i'm just being made a laughing stock...one laugh and the othrs follow...I FEEL TERRIBLE!Dear Troubled girl,Firstly, we apologise for the last reply. We've been busy with our personal stuff these few weeks. Sorry. Hmm . . . I would suggest you to have a hearty chat with them. It's beeter to let them know about your feelings rather than storing them in your heart. But if these problems still continue, I would suggest you to leave your friends. It's because they don't seem a bit interested in your doings. You will find a better friend(s) in the future. Jia you(: Yours Truly, The Aunties Labels: TAG REPLY, TEENAGE
03 June 2009 | 8:24:00 PM
troubled gal: hmm i wanna ask...what should i do if i cant get along well wif my friends? sometimes i feel so stressed being with them...even felt left out too..what should i do?
Dear troubled gal,
You should try to talk with them and get to know them better. Knowing them better will help you get along better with your friends. Try not to feel stressed being with your friends as you should feel happy about having friends. When felt left out, try to join in their conversation to feel not so left out. Hope you can get along well with your friends soon! 
Yours Truly,
The Aunties
Labels: TAG REPLY, TEENAGE | 8:07:00 PM
Passerby: how do i cope with friendship problems? My bestfriend and i have been quarrelling for quite some time.
Dear Passerby,
One way to cope with friendship problems is to forgive and forget. Most teenagers experience quarelling with friends too. You can cope by forgetting about the quarrel and forgiving your friend. Try to be the one to start a conversation with your friend. Maybe your friend had also forgotten about the quarrel and had already forgave you. Your friend might also want to talk to you but just don't know how to start a conversation with you. Hope we helped you cope with friendship problems better (:
Yours Truly,
The Aunties
Labels: TAG REPLY, TEENAGE | 7:59:00 PM
Stella Ng: Any advise on how to recover quickly from surgery?
Dear Mrs Stella Ng,
The best way to recover quickly from surgery is to stay happy everyday after your surgery! By staying happy everyday, you will forget the pain on your wound! Forgetting the pain will make you not think about the wound and letting it recover itself more quickly. You can also try to rest more to let your wound recover more quickly. Hope your wound will recover as fast as the Speed of light! :D 
From,
The Aunties
Labels: TAG REPLY | 7:11:00 PM
Complicated me: Aunties ! Help me ! My best friend , keep talking bad things about me Which is never true ! She keep saying that , i keep stealing all her boyfriends . But it's never true ! I'm not that kind of person . Please , tell me what to do ! :'( I seriously need help :'(
Dear Complicated me,
I think you can try to talk to your best friend. As you mentioned, she's your best friend. By trying to talk to your best friend, you can know what happened and why she keep saying that you keep stealing her boyfriends. Maybe there is a misunderstanding between you and your best friend. After knowing why your best friend says that you steal her boyfriends, you can try to explain yourself and try to solve the misunderstanding. Hope you and your best friend can be best friends again! :D
From,
The Aunties
Labels: TAG REPLY, TEENAGE 30 May 2009 | 9:56:00 AM
I'm too busy to meet up with my friends. How?Dear Mrs Stella Ng, If you really can't find time for your friends. You can try to communicate with your friend through phone and not lost contact with them. Or maybe just try to find some time for your friend. Try telling your friend that you are busy with your work.Another alternative way is to improve your time management. Make a time table for the activities you have on a particular day to plan your time properly. Hope our advise help you. Labels: ADULT, TAG REPLY
| 9:20:00 AM
AIYAH: help me aunties! A guy confessed to me but i don't like him! HELP AHHHHHH!!!!!Dear AIYAH, Hhm, you can consider telling the person that you are not interested in a relationship right now and you want to concentrate on your studies now.Or, you can tell him that you would like to maintain the relationship as friends as it would be better for the both of you. (:Labels: TAG REPLY, TEENAGE
23 May 2009 | 10:01:00 AM
Troubled Boy: Erm ... i am in pri5 and there is a big guy in my school who keep picking on me. I am very scared and troubled. Please help me ...
Dear Troubled boy,Don't be afraid of the bully. It may be because he is treated unfairly by other or by their family members. These bullies usually come from broken families who have nobody to turn to when in need. So, they become bullies to make their self-esteem higher. It is better to approach an adult for help than to solve your own problems. Next time, when you see the bully, don't be afraid and stand tall. If possible, make friends with the bully so that they can become a better person in life. Moreover, they will not feel lonely and satisfy their anger by beating people up. The bullies may seem strong on the outside but in the inside, they are more fragile than others. Don't judge a book by it's cover :DYour's Truly,The AuntiesLabels: Children, TAG REPLY
| 9:57:00 AM
Young Girl: I'm 13 yrs old, im experiencing relationship problems. I find it hard to communicate with my friends. Please help me!
Dear Young Girl, Ahhhh! That's a question everyone is asking nowadays. See, friendship isn't as easy as ABC. To hear many of you tell it, making a good friend is almost like adding a new family member. It comes with trust and responsibility. Try to talk to your friends to find out what's the problem between you guys. Write her a note or e-mail. She may be feeling troubled lately and does not want to talk about it. But my advice is, "Cherish them like you only have one last day with them."Labels: TAG REPLY, TEENAGE
20 May 2009 | 3:45:00 PM
What if one of your friends is turning to bad company,how can I help him/her??Dear Waiwan, if your friend is turning to bad company, you can try to advice them about the consequences after joining the bad company. For example, they will start taking up smoking, or even worst, dealing with drugs. Which also leads to drug trafficking. Or he/she refuse to listen to your advice, you should report to his/her parents or teachers and councellors. If none of the above is helpful, the best advice is to report it to the police. Yours truly, The Aunties. Labels: TAG REPLY, TEENAGE
02 July 2009 | 9:16:00 PM
curious: i fall for a guy who is 6 years older than me, what should i do?Dear curious, Firstly, sorry for the late reply. The Aunties have been quite busy. You should try to ask yourself if you really did fall for this guy who is 6 years older than you or is it just a crush. If you had confirm that you fallen for him. You can approach him to talk and its okay to fall for a guy who is 6 years older than you as age does not matter as long as there is love. From, The Aunties. Labels: TAG REPLY
13 June 2009 | 1:59:00 PM
troubled gal: THanks a lot for the reply in such a short time,but it isnt so simple 2 go along with them it seems that i understand them but they just don't care and took me as if im extra and there's nothing for me to talk because they r just like talking among themselves about topics of their own.they just don't want to share,i feel as if i'm just being made a laughing stock...one laugh and the othrs follow...I FEEL TERRIBLE!Dear Troubled girl,Firstly, we apologise for the last reply. We've been busy with our personal stuff these few weeks. Sorry. Hmm . . . I would suggest you to have a hearty chat with them. It's beeter to let them know about your feelings rather than storing them in your heart. But if these problems still continue, I would suggest you to leave your friends. It's because they don't seem a bit interested in your doings. You will find a better friend(s) in the future. Jia you(: Yours Truly, The Aunties Labels: TAG REPLY, TEENAGE
03 June 2009 | 8:24:00 PM
troubled gal: hmm i wanna ask...what should i do if i cant get along well wif my friends? sometimes i feel so stressed being with them...even felt left out too..what should i do?
Dear troubled gal,
You should try to talk with them and get to know them better. Knowing them better will help you get along better with your friends. Try not to feel stressed being with your friends as you should feel happy about having friends. When felt left out, try to join in their conversation to feel not so left out. Hope you can get along well with your friends soon!
Yours Truly,
The Aunties
Labels: TAG REPLY, TEENAGE | 8:07:00 PM
Passerby: how do i cope with friendship problems? My bestfriend and i have been quarrelling for quite some time.
Dear Passerby,
One way to cope with friendship problems is to forgive and forget. Most teenagers experience quarelling with friends too. You can cope by forgetting about the quarrel and forgiving your friend. Try to be the one to start a conversation with your friend. Maybe your friend had also forgotten about the quarrel and had already forgave you. Your friend might also want to talk to you but just don't know how to start a conversation with you. Hope we helped you cope with friendship problems better (:
Yours Truly,
The Aunties
Labels: TAG REPLY, TEENAGE | 7:59:00 PM
Stella Ng: Any advise on how to recover quickly from surgery?
Dear Mrs Stella Ng,
The best way to recover quickly from surgery is to stay happy everyday after your surgery! By staying happy everyday, you will forget the pain on your wound! Forgetting the pain will make you not think about the wound and letting it recover itself more quickly. You can also try to rest more to let your wound recover more quickly. Hope your wound will recover as fast as the Speed of light! :D
From,
The Aunties
Labels: TAG REPLY | 7:11:00 PM
Complicated me: Aunties ! Help me ! My best friend , keep talking bad things about me Which is never true ! She keep saying that , i keep stealing all her boyfriends . But it's never true ! I'm not that kind of person . Please , tell me what to do ! :'( I seriously need help :'(
Dear Complicated me,
I think you can try to talk to your best friend. As you mentioned, she's your best friend. By trying to talk to your best friend, you can know what happened and why she keep saying that you keep stealing her boyfriends. Maybe there is a misunderstanding between you and your best friend. After knowing why your best friend says that you steal her boyfriends, you can try to explain yourself and try to solve the misunderstanding. Hope you and your best friend can be best friends again! :D
From,
The Aunties
Labels: TAG REPLY, TEENAGE 30 May 2009 | 9:56:00 AM
I'm too busy to meet up with my friends. How?Dear Mrs Stella Ng, If you really can't find time for your friends. You can try to communicate with your friend through phone and not lost contact with them. Or maybe just try to find some time for your friend. Try telling your friend that you are busy with your work.Another alternative way is to improve your time management. Make a time table for the activities you have on a particular day to plan your time properly. Hope our advise help you. Labels: ADULT, TAG REPLY
| 9:20:00 AM
AIYAH: help me aunties! A guy confessed to me but i don't like him! HELP AHHHHHH!!!!!Dear AIYAH, Hhm, you can consider telling the person that you are not interested in a relationship right now and you want to concentrate on your studies now.Or, you can tell him that you would like to maintain the relationship as friends as it would be better for the both of you. (:Labels: TAG REPLY, TEENAGE
23 May 2009 | 10:01:00 AM
Troubled Boy: Erm ... i am in pri5 and there is a big guy in my school who keep picking on me. I am very scared and troubled. Please help me ...
Dear Troubled boy,Don't be afraid of the bully. It may be because he is treated unfairly by other or by their family members. These bullies usually come from broken families who have nobody to turn to when in need. So, they become bullies to make their self-esteem higher. It is better to approach an adult for help than to solve your own problems. Next time, when you see the bully, don't be afraid and stand tall. If possible, make friends with the bully so that they can become a better person in life. Moreover, they will not feel lonely and satisfy their anger by beating people up. The bullies may seem strong on the outside but in the inside, they are more fragile than others. Don't judge a book by it's cover :DYour's Truly,The AuntiesLabels: Children, TAG REPLY
| 9:57:00 AM
Young Girl: I'm 13 yrs old, im experiencing relationship problems. I find it hard to communicate with my friends. Please help me!
Dear Young Girl, Ahhhh! That's a question everyone is asking nowadays. See, friendship isn't as easy as ABC. To hear many of you tell it, making a good friend is almost like adding a new family member. It comes with trust and responsibility. Try to talk to your friends to find out what's the problem between you guys. Write her a note or e-mail. She may be feeling troubled lately and does not want to talk about it. But my advice is, "Cherish them like you only have one last day with them."Labels: TAG REPLY, TEENAGE
20 May 2009 | 3:45:00 PM
What if one of your friends is turning to bad company,how can I help him/her??Dear Waiwan, if your friend is turning to bad company, you can try to advice them about the consequences after joining the bad company. For example, they will start taking up smoking, or even worst, dealing with drugs. Which also leads to drug trafficking. Or he/she refuse to listen to your advice, you should report to his/her parents or teachers and councellors. If none of the above is helpful, the best advice is to report it to the police. Yours truly, The Aunties. Labels: TAG REPLY, TEENAGE
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